Category: Blog Posts
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Time, Priorities, Choices — The Blueprint of My 20s
The author reflects on personal growth through time management, prioritization, and conscious choices. They emphasize the importance of setting boundaries to protect their time and well-being, and recognize that their priorities shape their decisions. Embracing their journey, they affirm their confidence in pursuing genuine happiness and fulfillment, ready to face the future boldly.
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The Misunderstood Feminine: PCOS, Power, and Pink Wraps
The author reflects on embracing her femininity while managing PCOS, highlighting her journey from insecurity to self-acceptance. Despite societal pressures and male-dominated environments, she celebrates her unique identity, merging her interests with traditional femininity. Ultimately, she advocates for a broad understanding of womanhood, championing strength and authenticity.
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Becoming Unreachable to Anything Beneath My Worth
At twenty-three, I began a blog reflecting on my dating experiences as a Black Muslim woman. Now approaching thirty, I’ve evaluated my relationships, ending toxic ones and nurturing healthy connections that uplift me. I embrace vulnerability, set clear boundaries, and focus on reciprocal love, celebrating growth and maturity in my interactions.
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Embracing Halloween: A Muslim Perspective on Celebrating the Spooky Season
The author, raised in a Muslim household that didn’t celebrate Halloween, reflects on her evolving relationship with the holiday. Embracing her “dark side,” she plans to enjoy Halloween by cuddling with her cat, watching horror movies, and expressing herself through costume, seeking confidence and joy in her newfound experiences.
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Celebrating Milestones: Reflections Before 30
As I approach thirty, I’m reflecting on my journey in my twenties. I’ve learned to prioritize myself and embrace my voice. This year, I aim to share more personal experiences, focusing on solo adventures. Grateful for my growth, I celebrate my victories and encourage others to do the same. Life has exceeded my expectations.
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Embracing PCOS: A Letter to My Younger Self
In a heartfelt letter for PCOS Awareness Month, the author reflects on their journey from fear and shame regarding PCOS to self-love and acceptance. Embracing the condition has led to personal growth and a newfound appreciation for themselves. They encourage their younger self to embrace their identity and celebrate their unique journey.
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How I Chose Myself This Summer
This summer has been transformative, focused on self-discovery rather than pleasing others. The author prioritized personal adventures, from visiting family graves to participating in the World Pride Parade. New friendships flourished, and memorable family road trips were taken. Ultimately, the summer became a celebration of growth, gratitude, and personal fulfillment.
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Running Through the Storm: A Life-Changing Marathon Experience
The author reflects on a transformative journey from walking to completing a marathon after facing a significant foot injury. Emphasizing determination, they describe participating in The Night Nation Run, a music festival charity event for cancer research. Overcoming challenges, the experience symbolizes resilience and motivation, inspiring the author to embrace running as a lifelong pursuit.
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Elevating My Dating Game: Cannabis and Confidence
The author shares their positive experiences dating while prioritizing self-care and well-being. They view themselves as a prize and approach dating playfully, enhancing their confidence with micro-dosing cannabis. Despite facing challenges, they embrace their femininity, focus on compatibility, and aim for a meaningful relationship without settling for less.
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Healing Through Self-Dating: Embracing Your True Self
The author reflects on feelings of sadness and loneliness from being single, recognizing the lack of genuine love in past relationships. They took a break from dating to focus on self-love, engaging in self-care practices like buying flowers and writing love letters. This journey led to personal healing, clarity, and readiness to embrace new relationships.
The Misunderstood Afro-Muslimah 