Tag: hijabi
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My PCOS Struggles: Embracing Flaws and Finding Confidence
The author shares their struggles with PCOS, focusing on skin issues like acne and facial hair that sparked insecurities during adolescence. Initially seeking quick fixes and makeup to feel feminine, they faced bullying in school. Over time, they learned to manage their appearance but still felt the weight of their insecurities. They express relief in…
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The Hidden Struggles Behind a Smile
The author reflects on their journey from hiding behind a hijab to concealing emotions behind a smile. Despite shedding the hijab, they find they still mask their true feelings, presenting a façade of happiness while feeling heartbreak and disappointment. They recognize the need to abandon this false smile and reclaim their authentic self.
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My Experience Dating After Hijab: Patterns and Observations
Dating as an Ex Hijabi reveals challenges, particularly with Muslim men, who often fall into two categories. The first group respects women’s choices but pressures future wives to wear hijab, while the second group, the “hijabi bashers,” assume non-hijabis disdain hijabis. Ironically, many hijabi bashers eventually marry hijabis after dating less religious women. While not…
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Navigating Ignorance: Questions About Hijab
The author reflects on their experience as a hijabi, expressing nostalgia for the solidarity and sisterhood it fostered among women. While they found humor in naive questions about their hijab, they felt offended by assumptions of oppression. Ultimately, they recognize the ignorance around them and learn to not let it impact their self-worth.
The Misunderstood Afro-Muslimah 