Category: Blog Posts
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The Mask We Wear: A Therapy Journey Unveiled
The author describes the struggle of seeking therapy, initially feeling shame and vulnerability. After a low point, they return but remain superficial at first. A pivotal question from the therapist prompts self-reflection, leading to revelations about masking pain with a smile. The experience highlights the challenge of confronting inner truths.
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Rediscovering My Faith: Insights from Leo Africanus
The book “Leo Africanus” resonated deeply with me, reminding me of my religious goals and childhood lessons. It inspired reflection on my identity as a Muslimah and the importance of Islam in my life. The Hajj experience described in the novel reignited my goal to support my parents’ pilgrimage. I highly recommend the book.
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Burning Down Shame: How to Rebuild Your Self-Worth
The author reflects on a transformative journey from a lackluster mindset to reclaiming her sense of self. Initially consumed by toxic relationships and low self-worth, losing therapists catalyzed her growth. Embracing her past, she shifted focus towards self-love and positivity, reigniting her passion and generating a newfound fire in her life.
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Embracing Self-Confidence as a Modern Muslimah
The author reflects on their journey of self-acceptance, dismissing societal pressures regarding modesty and marriage. Despite being labeled as ‘wild’ by Islamic standards, they prioritize personal growth and self-love over conforming to expectations. They seek a partner who embraces their true self, rather than changing for a relationship.
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The Hidden Struggles Behind a Smile
The author reflects on their journey from hiding behind a hijab to concealing emotions behind a smile. Despite shedding the hijab, they find they still mask their true feelings, presenting a façade of happiness while feeling heartbreak and disappointment. They recognize the need to abandon this false smile and reclaim their authentic self.
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Embracing Joy Amidst Struggles: A Juneteenth Reflection
The author reflects on the challenges of being a Black Muslim woman, grappling with feelings of heartbreak and exhaustion amid ongoing racism and violence. While using her blog to process these experiences with a lighthearted approach, she expresses a desire for self-care and the importance of celebrating her identity and heritage on Juneteenth.
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My Journey to a Healthier Body and Mind
The author reflects on their evolving relationship with their body and commitment to healthier living. They aim to improve their diet by reducing sugar and junk food while incorporating exercise, driven by personal goals rather than external validation. Despite setbacks, they find joy in fitness and self-acceptance, focusing on inner strength and progress.
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Finding Peace During Ramadan: A Personal Journey
The author reflects on their time spent at home during the stay-at-home order, sharing experiences with family, especially with their younger brother. They observe a change in habits, increasing water intake and cooking at home, while also engaging in fitness together. Despite binge-watching shows, they feel at peace, aiming to use their time more productively…
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Grateful Reflections on Two Years of Blogging
The author celebrates their two-year blogging anniversary, expressing gratitude for being nominated for the Sunshine Blogger Award and reflecting on their journey. They cherish support from readers and highlight their favorite post, “Not Black Enough.” Additionally, they valued connections made as a featured blogger on Hijabie Hood. Excited for future growth, they appreciate their community.
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The Day My Dad Discovered I Lived in a Trap House
My sentence of living in the Trap House was finally over, and I had mixed emotions. Mostly excited and thrilled to be leaving that dump of a house. The only problem was my father was finally going to see where I’ve been living for the past four months. The whole neighborhood looked a mess, dirty…
The Misunderstood Afro-Muslimah 