Tag: christianity
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Celebrating Milestones: Reflections Before 30
As I approach thirty, I’m reflecting on my journey in my twenties. I’ve learned to prioritize myself and embrace my voice. This year, I aim to share more personal experiences, focusing on solo adventures. Grateful for my growth, I celebrate my victories and encourage others to do the same. Life has exceeded my expectations.
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Finding Belonging: My Journey with Extended Family
The author reflects on their challenging relationship with their extended family, predominantly marked by emotional abuse and a lack of acceptance of their Muslim identity. Favoritism towards their older brother and exclusion from family activities combined with negative sentiments towards Islam contribute to the author’s feelings of alienation, though they value their immediate family.
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Finding Belonging: Reflections on Growing Up Outsider
The author reflects on their connection to the show Malcolm in the Middle, feeling like an outsider throughout their middle school years. Despite initially being excited about attending a predominantly Black American school, they faced ignorance regarding their identity as a hijabi. Now, as an adult, they embrace their unique values and strive for an…
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Navigating Ignorance: Questions About Hijab
The author reflects on their experience as a hijabi, expressing nostalgia for the solidarity and sisterhood it fostered among women. While they found humor in naive questions about their hijab, they felt offended by assumptions of oppression. Ultimately, they recognize the ignorance around them and learn to not let it impact their self-worth.
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The Strength of Women: A Personal Feminist Journey
The author reflects on her identity as a young Black Muslim woman and her inherent feminism. She highlights the societal undervaluation of women, particularly women of color, and her father’s support. Influenced by media and history, she identifies the need for women’s rights and celebrates Women’s History Month as significant in her life.
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Overcoming Cultural Misunderstanding: My School Journey
The author reflects on their challenging middle school experience, marked by a feeling of isolation due to cultural differences. A memorable incident involved a substitute teacher who dismissed their identity, reinforcing feelings of not belonging. Despite growing up in a Black community, the author often felt marginalized, struggling with their unique identity.
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Navigating Faith: The Struggles of a Modern Muslimah
The author expresses a deep-seated fear regarding their faith as a Muslimah, grappling with feelings of mediocrity and disobedience. Despite their nonchalant exterior, they reflect on their haram actions and question their faith amid global suffering. They ponder if their rebellious life choices will persist beyond youth, desiring to make a positive impact.
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My Non-Traditional Christmas Experience
The author reflects on their gradual understanding of Christmas, having been raised in a Muslim household that avoided the holiday. Initially unaware of its significance, they became acquainted with Christmas culture in their teenage years but chose not to celebrate. Instead, they enjoy a unique family tradition on that day.
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Understanding Religion: My Journey as a Black Muslim Woman
The Misunderstood Afro Muslimah shares her journey as a young black woman navigating her identity in America. Raised to prioritize her faith, she experienced societal pressures and questioned religious tenets. After exploring various beliefs, she embraced her unique bicultural identity, aiming to be a good person and contribute positively to the world.
