Tag: hijab
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✨ December Newsletter: Stepping Into Your Power ✨
Hey Fireworks,Welcome to December — my birthday month, my new chapter, and honestly… my rebirth. And before we go any further, I want to share something special with you. After years of writing, healing, evolving, and pouring into this space, it finally felt right to give this community a name. Starting today, you are The Fireworks — the vibrant,…
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My PCOS Struggles: Embracing Flaws and Finding Confidence
The author shares their struggles with PCOS, focusing on skin issues like acne and facial hair that sparked insecurities during adolescence. Initially seeking quick fixes and makeup to feel feminine, they faced bullying in school. Over time, they learned to manage their appearance but still felt the weight of their insecurities. They express relief in…
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Respecting Muslim Women: The Conversation About Hijab
The author reflects on the perceptions of being a Muslim woman, particularly the difference in respect and recognition associated with wearing a hijab. She expresses frustration over the need for validation of her faith based on her appearance. Ultimately, she emphasizes that her spirituality is personal and should be respected without judgment.
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The Hidden Struggles Behind a Smile
The author reflects on their journey from hiding behind a hijab to concealing emotions behind a smile. Despite shedding the hijab, they find they still mask their true feelings, presenting a façade of happiness while feeling heartbreak and disappointment. They recognize the need to abandon this false smile and reclaim their authentic self.
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My Experience Dating After Hijab: Patterns and Observations
Dating as an Ex Hijabi reveals challenges, particularly with Muslim men, who often fall into two categories. The first group respects women’s choices but pressures future wives to wear hijab, while the second group, the “hijabi bashers,” assume non-hijabis disdain hijabis. Ironically, many hijabi bashers eventually marry hijabis after dating less religious women. While not…
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From Hijab to Natural: My Hair Evolution
The author reflects on their evolving relationship with hair, transitioning from wearing a hijab to embracing their natural texture. Initially enjoying short cuts, they experimented with styles and products but faced challenges with maintenance. Currently, they’ve committed to growing their hair out after years of challenges, aiming to reclaim their natural look.
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Navigating Hijab and Modesty: A Reflection from a Muslimah
The narrative reflects on the journey of a young girl who starts wearing the hijab at age 12. Initially motivated by faith, she struggles with identity and self-image during challenging adolescence. Through reflection and research in high school, she redefines her understanding of modesty, concluding that personal actions define her Muslim identity more than clothing…
The Misunderstood Afro-Muslimah 