Category: Blog Posts
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Navigating Racial Dynamics in Islam: Hair and Identity
The author addresses the sensitivity surrounding hair in the black community, particularly for women. They reflect on their upbringing and experiences of being shamed for their hair choices in predominantly non-black spaces. The author advocates for open discussions on racism within the Muslim community, emphasizing that hair choices should not be judged.
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Stepping Out: A Journey into Party Culture
In her early 20s, the narrator reflects on her experience as a party girl, despite not truly enjoying the lifestyle. Influenced by a friend, she attended her first frat party, feeling out of place in revealing clothing. While she preferred socializing over dancing, the thrill of this new world intrigued her, marking a significant shift…
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The African American Experience: A Call for Unity
The author embraces their identity as a proud Black American Muslim, emphasizing that being Black and Muslim coexist harmoniously. They reflect on experiences of cultural isolation and bullying due to their identity. Advocating for unity among the diaspora, the author stresses the importance of recognizing African American contributions and celebrates diverse Black cultures while calling…
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Navigating Sibling Dynamics: From Middle to Oldest Child
The author reflects on their experience of growing up as the youngest child, later becoming the oldest due to changes in family dynamics. Initially overshadowed by their perfect older brother, they embraced being different but eventually felt burdened by newfound responsibilities and expectations. They grapple with identity and family roles amidst comparisons with siblings.
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Thriving Beyond Societal Expectations
The author reflects on societal expectations that mold women into ideal partners for men, revealing a lifelong struggle against double standards. Despite facing trauma and injustice, the writer emphasizes resilience and a desire to transcend these limitations. The goal is to dismantle patriarchal norms and empower others to thrive authentically.
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Breaking Stereotypes: The Black Muslim Experience
The author, a Black Muslim woman, reflects on the challenges of navigating multiple identities, which often feel suffocating. She grapples with societal stereotypes, balancing aggression and timidity, and the pressure to represent Islam positively amidst Islamophobia. This struggle leads to a loss of her authentic self while conforming to others’ expectations.
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Respecting Muslim Women: The Conversation About Hijab
The author reflects on the perceptions of being a Muslim woman, particularly the difference in respect and recognition associated with wearing a hijab. She expresses frustration over the need for validation of her faith based on her appearance. Ultimately, she emphasizes that her spirituality is personal and should be respected without judgment.
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Transforming Trauma: Finding Strength in Scars
The author reflects on their therapeutic journey, expressing frustration over not feeling “cured” or like their younger self. They realize that trying to recreate a past self is hindering growth. Embracing scars as signs of strength and living in the present become key lessons in their path to self-acceptance and resilience.
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Reflections on Turning 25: A Personal Journey
The author reflects on turning twenty-five after a transformative year filled with challenges, including heartbreak, a pandemic, and loss. Despite the struggles, they celebrate personal growth, self-love, and strengthened relationships. They are entering this new chapter healthier and happier, ready to embrace joy, set boundaries, and seek justice over reputation.
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From Dark Times to Self-Compassion
The author reflects on their difficult journey through therapy, revealing lost faith and self-love. Struggling with self-sabotage and negative self-image, they find solace in a therapist’s prompt to identify personal qualities. After tears and introspection, they create a list of admirable traits, recognizing the importance of self-compassion and a valuable life.
The Misunderstood Afro-Muslimah 