Tag: A Muslimah’s Relationships
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Breaking Stereotypes: The Black Muslim Experience
The author, a Black Muslim woman, reflects on the challenges of navigating multiple identities, which often feel suffocating. She grapples with societal stereotypes, balancing aggression and timidity, and the pressure to represent Islam positively amidst Islamophobia. This struggle leads to a loss of her authentic self while conforming to others’ expectations.
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Respecting Muslim Women: The Conversation About Hijab
The author reflects on the perceptions of being a Muslim woman, particularly the difference in respect and recognition associated with wearing a hijab. She expresses frustration over the need for validation of her faith based on her appearance. Ultimately, she emphasizes that her spirituality is personal and should be respected without judgment.
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Reflections on Turning 25: A Personal Journey
The author reflects on turning twenty-five after a transformative year filled with challenges, including heartbreak, a pandemic, and loss. Despite the struggles, they celebrate personal growth, self-love, and strengthened relationships. They are entering this new chapter healthier and happier, ready to embrace joy, set boundaries, and seek justice over reputation.
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Burning Down Shame: How to Rebuild Your Self-Worth
The author reflects on a transformative journey from a lackluster mindset to reclaiming her sense of self. Initially consumed by toxic relationships and low self-worth, losing therapists catalyzed her growth. Embracing her past, she shifted focus towards self-love and positivity, reigniting her passion and generating a newfound fire in her life.
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Embracing Self-Confidence as a Modern Muslimah
The author reflects on their journey of self-acceptance, dismissing societal pressures regarding modesty and marriage. Despite being labeled as ‘wild’ by Islamic standards, they prioritize personal growth and self-love over conforming to expectations. They seek a partner who embraces their true self, rather than changing for a relationship.
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My Journey to a Healthier Body and Mind
The author reflects on their evolving relationship with their body and commitment to healthier living. They aim to improve their diet by reducing sugar and junk food while incorporating exercise, driven by personal goals rather than external validation. Despite setbacks, they find joy in fitness and self-acceptance, focusing on inner strength and progress.
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Finding Peace During Ramadan: A Personal Journey
The author reflects on their time spent at home during the stay-at-home order, sharing experiences with family, especially with their younger brother. They observe a change in habits, increasing water intake and cooking at home, while also engaging in fitness together. Despite binge-watching shows, they feel at peace, aiming to use their time more productively…
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Grateful Reflections on Two Years of Blogging
The author celebrates their two-year blogging anniversary, expressing gratitude for being nominated for the Sunshine Blogger Award and reflecting on their journey. They cherish support from readers and highlight their favorite post, “Not Black Enough.” Additionally, they valued connections made as a featured blogger on Hijabie Hood. Excited for future growth, they appreciate their community.
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The Day My Dad Discovered I Lived in a Trap House
My sentence of living in the Trap House was finally over, and I had mixed emotions. Mostly excited and thrilled to be leaving that dump of a house. The only problem was my father was finally going to see where I’ve been living for the past four months. The whole neighborhood looked a mess, dirty…
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Tom, Jerry, and Me: Surviving a Mouse in the Trap House
You know living in the trap house had many difficulties, that I didn’t mind so much. Up until I heard a mouse in my room. I’m terrified of bugs and have a fear of mice. I remember hearing the bickering couple in the basement complain about mice, but I’ve never seen any and assumed I…
The Misunderstood Afro-Muslimah 