Tag: muslimah
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Navigating Racial Dynamics in Islam: Hair and Identity
The author addresses the sensitivity surrounding hair in the black community, particularly for women. They reflect on their upbringing and experiences of being shamed for their hair choices in predominantly non-black spaces. The author advocates for open discussions on racism within the Muslim community, emphasizing that hair choices should not be judged.
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Overcoming PCOS: My Journey to Acceptance and Confidence
The author shares their commitment to blog more consistently and be vulnerable in their content. They reflect on their struggle with Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS), acknowledging denial and a lack of treatment during their early symptoms. The realization of their health issue has shifted their mindset, leading to greater acceptance.
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Stepping Out: A Journey into Party Culture
In her early 20s, the narrator reflects on her experience as a party girl, despite not truly enjoying the lifestyle. Influenced by a friend, she attended her first frat party, feeling out of place in revealing clothing. While she preferred socializing over dancing, the thrill of this new world intrigued her, marking a significant shift…
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The African American Experience: A Call for Unity
The author embraces their identity as a proud Black American Muslim, emphasizing that being Black and Muslim coexist harmoniously. They reflect on experiences of cultural isolation and bullying due to their identity. Advocating for unity among the diaspora, the author stresses the importance of recognizing African American contributions and celebrates diverse Black cultures while calling…
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Navigating Sibling Dynamics: From Middle to Oldest Child
The author reflects on their experience of growing up as the youngest child, later becoming the oldest due to changes in family dynamics. Initially overshadowed by their perfect older brother, they embraced being different but eventually felt burdened by newfound responsibilities and expectations. They grapple with identity and family roles amidst comparisons with siblings.
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Overcoming Anxiety: My Journey to Mental Wellness
After a long break, the author shares their journey in overcoming anxiety and depression. They recommitted to therapy, embraced vulnerability, and practiced daily affirmations. By transforming their fitness and nutrition mindset, they shifted focus from punishment to self-love. The author emphasizes building self-esteem and trusting in their ability to tackle life’s challenges.
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Breaking Stereotypes: The Black Muslim Experience
The author, a Black Muslim woman, reflects on the challenges of navigating multiple identities, which often feel suffocating. She grapples with societal stereotypes, balancing aggression and timidity, and the pressure to represent Islam positively amidst Islamophobia. This struggle leads to a loss of her authentic self while conforming to others’ expectations.
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Respecting Muslim Women: The Conversation About Hijab
The author reflects on the perceptions of being a Muslim woman, particularly the difference in respect and recognition associated with wearing a hijab. She expresses frustration over the need for validation of her faith based on her appearance. Ultimately, she emphasizes that her spirituality is personal and should be respected without judgment.
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Rediscovering My Faith: Insights from Leo Africanus
The book “Leo Africanus” resonated deeply with me, reminding me of my religious goals and childhood lessons. It inspired reflection on my identity as a Muslimah and the importance of Islam in my life. The Hajj experience described in the novel reignited my goal to support my parents’ pilgrimage. I highly recommend the book.
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Embracing Self-Confidence as a Modern Muslimah
The author reflects on their journey of self-acceptance, dismissing societal pressures regarding modesty and marriage. Despite being labeled as ‘wild’ by Islamic standards, they prioritize personal growth and self-love over conforming to expectations. They seek a partner who embraces their true self, rather than changing for a relationship.
The Misunderstood Afro-Muslimah 