Tag: women

  • My Experience Dating After Hijab: Patterns and Observations

    My Experience Dating After Hijab: Patterns and Observations

    Dating as an Ex Hijabi reveals challenges, particularly with Muslim men, who often fall into two categories. The first group respects women’s choices but pressures future wives to wear hijab, while the second group, the “hijabi bashers,” assume non-hijabis disdain hijabis. Ironically, many hijabi bashers eventually marry hijabis after dating less religious women. While not…

  • Navigating Ignorance: Questions About Hijab

    Navigating Ignorance: Questions About Hijab

    The author reflects on their experience as a hijabi, expressing nostalgia for the solidarity and sisterhood it fostered among women. While they found humor in naive questions about their hijab, they felt offended by assumptions of oppression. Ultimately, they recognize the ignorance around them and learn to not let it impact their self-worth.

  • Celebrating One Year as The Misunderstood Afro Muslimah

    Celebrating One Year as The Misunderstood Afro Muslimah

    The author reflects on a year of blogging unexpectedly, expressing pride in sharing her unique perspective as a young Black Muslim woman. Initially an online diary, her blog, The Misunderstood Afro Muslimah, gained readership and engagement, leading to meaningful connections, discussions, and opportunities, inspiring her to continue this journey.

  • The Strength of Women: A Personal Feminist Journey

    The Strength of Women: A Personal Feminist Journey

    The author reflects on her identity as a young Black Muslim woman and her inherent feminism. She highlights the societal undervaluation of women, particularly women of color, and her father’s support. Influenced by media and history, she identifies the need for women’s rights and celebrates Women’s History Month as significant in her life.

  • Overcoming Cultural Misunderstanding: My School Journey

    Overcoming Cultural Misunderstanding: My School Journey

    The author reflects on their challenging middle school experience, marked by a feeling of isolation due to cultural differences. A memorable incident involved a substitute teacher who dismissed their identity, reinforcing feelings of not belonging. Despite growing up in a Black community, the author often felt marginalized, struggling with their unique identity.

  • Understanding Religion: My Journey as a Black Muslim Woman

    Understanding Religion: My Journey as a Black Muslim Woman

    The Misunderstood Afro Muslimah shares her journey as a young black woman navigating her identity in America. Raised to prioritize her faith, she experienced societal pressures and questioned religious tenets. After exploring various beliefs, she embraced her unique bicultural identity, aiming to be a good person and contribute positively to the world.